Bad Reasons
to Get
into a Relationship
Do you feel that all of your relationships are
perpetually going down hill? Even though it is not your fault? You
should stop to think whether you are getting into a relationship for
the wrong reasons. Getting into a relationship for the wrong reasons
may well entail a lot of heart ache and potential future disaster.
A common mistake is getting into a relationship because
you are lonely. Many women hang on to their boyfriends out of a sheer
fear of loneliness, even if their boyfriends don‘t treat them
well, are abusive, immature and disrespectful. A lot of women think
that a bad boyfriend is better than no boyfriend at all.
This is however a route to potential future disaster and
is best avoided. If you can see yourself approaching someone just to
have someone to enjoy the weekend with, then reproach yourself, for
this is a big mistake. Instead, get together with your single friends
and spend time.
A lot of people get into a relationship out of peer
pressure. As more and more of your friends find boyfriends and they get
deeper into their relationships, and some even get engaged, you may
often feel sad or depressed as to why you are not able to experience
the pleasure they do. You may often feel that there is something wrong
with you if you are still single.
There are even a few women who have an intense need to
be like their friends so they often get into a relationship with the
first person they see. However, there is nothing wrong with being
single. There are many people who are single and happy, so find your
self a hobby or something to engage yourself with.
Another common reason for people to rush into
relationships is that they feel that they are missing something, and
often they think that it is a male presence. However as they soon find
out, a boyfriend rarely solves the problem. The empty space that they
used to feel usually still remains.
The presence of these empty feelings inside them may
damage their relationship later on down the line. When they enter a
relationship, the man will sooner or later detect these insecurities
and he will not be likely to take the relationship further.
As you can see, getting into relationships for the wrong
reasons may damage your relationships later, causing many problems and
a lot of heart ache. When you do get into a relationship, do so not
because you need to but because you want to. Getting into a
relationship should never be done under any sort of compulsion.
(An excerpt from the e-book: Getting Ready For The Right
Relationship)
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