The Consequences of Dating Lies

That person you had a date with and decided to marry, there are some things that were not meant to be. That is why divorce has become an issue. What were your motives for dating, your thinking? Can you be honest? Did you deceive him or her? If something was meant to be, then why did it fail?

Did you know that the biggest deception takes place in the beginning stages of a relationship? Think about it! Each of you spend your time impressing each other, thinking that what she looks like when you pick her up for your date, she will look like that forever. Or you get caught up in the Knight in shining armor who has come to your rescue. . . hog wash.

It’s all lies. You enter into the relationship lying, deceiving, then you lie some more and decide to bring children into this lie. Yet, you told each other you were soul mates, only to discover that you are now showing your true colors, the devil is exposed.

That is not, was not and never will be LOVE. Love cannot be defined by looks and sampling the grapes. You can leave the grapes on the vine. Don’t pick them. But no, that would be the right thing to do. No one wants to do the right thing anymore. It has become “All About Me.” Someone always loses when the grapes are sampled and the sampler is no longer.

Yes, women and men lie and say they’re get over it. Think about that intimate moment!!! Did you know that the two of you actually became one? Do you know that you as the male violated the woman’s sacred place, holy place. And you did it in some cases without obligation. Or you did it for a while and left it in ruins.

Divorce happens between people who never loved each other. They pretended. Whatever vow they took it was counterfeit. You don’t love and quit loving because. . . “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. . .Love never fails. . .”