Call
Me Old Fashion But, I'll Date A Gentleman Any Day
Dating a Gentleman
By Kimberly Mitchell
Here's a question for you: Do you think that women enjoy
dating a gentleman or is a man showing chivalry an insult to them?
What
is chivalry? Well, chivalry dates back many centuries
and has variations in its definition, most of which began with
knighthood-where
a certain code of behavior gave a mounted warrior special status in the
social
system.
Today,
chivalry can have different meanings to different
people, but generally it's defined by having good manners, being
polite,
respectful, loyal, and courteous. Chivalry means a man has honor, he
offers
assistance to those who need it, and he treats others with a kindness
like no
other. In some cases, you can think of chivalry as a sort of romantic
gesture;
whether it be your man or another offering it up. Of course, there are
other
ways a man can be chivalrous which has no romantic connection to
it-simply just
part of a code of honor that makes a man a gentleman.
Women's
rights and independence are very important, and
being a strong, independent woman does not exclude you from being the
beneficiary of chivalry and good deeds. Equality isn't responsible for
the lack
of chivalrous acts, and wanting chivalry has nothing to do with
weakness.
Perhaps you don't realize that chivalry is just one aspect of a good
relationship.
Maybe
you feel your independence will be threatened
somehow-but it doesn't have to be that way. You have a choice. In fact,
it's
just one more way for a woman to be independent. Expecting chivalry has
everything to do with being treated with respect, dignity, and kindness.
When
you are considering a mate, or even just a date, think
about what they can offer you. Dating is the ritual of deciding whether
someone
fits your needs, as well as, you fitting theirs.
When
the choice is made on which type of guy to connect
with, be with, or even marry, consider a gentleman. Their respectful
mannerisms
will complete your circle of happiness in a way like no other. Your
self-esteem
will be enhanced because you are being treated as you should...like a
lady.
Kimberly
Mitchell is the author of Loving with Purpose and
writer for such venues as http://LovingwithPurpose.org, http://Examiner.com,
and other reputable sites
offering advice. As an entrepreneurial relationship contributor and
student of
life, she believes that good or bad, personal experience is the best
teacher.
Her talents range from producing and presenting personal development,
diversity, and business solutions for company leaders to website and
graphic
design of company material. The combination of skills provided her
opportunities to achieve success personally and professionally.
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Comments:
Women should evaluate their interested suitors,
just in case that relationship grows into something more serious. If he
does
not know how to treat you like a lady in the dating stage, what do you
think
will be the end result in the future? Wake Up! It's not about taking
your
independence, it's about good manners which add up to respect. I'm all
for it,
what about you, ladies?
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