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Thinking about getting a girlfriend, a woman, or
friends with a young lady? Looking to
have a relationship? What makes you think you’re ready? Do you
know what women
like? Are you rebounding from a bad relationship and looking to jump
into
another?
Having raised two sons, part of
training them into young men
on our part was to demonstrate through our relationship how to treat a
young
lady. A son who sees his father and mother kissing, or embracing,
touching and
dad and mom giving gifts to each other is positive role modeling for
dating and
marriage when he is older.
As a mother I shared with him what
women like: boxes of
candy, flowers, dining out, small thoughtful gifts that say
you’re special,
cards unexpectedly, little notes and love poems. I let them know that
gifts are
no guarantee that she will want to be his girlfriend but it is a nice
thing to
do. I talked to them about respect, attentiveness to her comfort,
opening doors
and his role as protector.
Girls, ladies, women like to know that
a man sees them as
special, not just another conquest. Instead of the first date being a
dinner
date, do something like a picnic in the park. If you have gotten to the
point
of trust, take her for drives, walks and show her things perhaps
she’s not done
before.
It is important that you be yourself.
Help her to discover
your likes, your world. She would be interested in that. Ask her to
share her
world with you, what she likes.
My husband thought I was
unapproachable by the way I carried
myself, not snobbish, but the type of job I had at the time and the
people I
associated because he wasn’t one of them. Little did he know that
I was looking
for someone like him, not trying to impress me with stuff.
I could have eaten in the best
restaurant, with anyone from
my circle, yet he showed up repeatedly wanting to know if I had eaten
and if I
hadn’t what did I feel like eating. I liked that. He stood out
from all the
others. He would buy the food, return and we would sit, eat and talk.
He never
stepped over the line.
Women are attracted to men who treat
them with respect, who
care about them and not sex focused. What you will find out about
women, your
best efforts may not keep them but dating should be about fun and
staying away
from acts that have long time consequences.
So how do you prepare for that new
relationship? Examine
your motives, your intentions. When the opportunity comes, take it
slow. Before
you get into it, know how far you want to go. Entering into a romantic
relationship has consequences that can be life altering.
Remember what you sow is what you get.
Your getting may not
be from the one you sowed to but it will come back to you in ways which
will
astound you.
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