Gifts Are A Way to a Woman’s Heart

Men like to give women gifts and women like receiving gifts. That is the truth. It doesn’t matter how much of a front she puts up, acting like she is not interested, when she gets with her friends you will be the center of that conversation.

Where do you start? You can be bold, walk up to her and give her a business card sized card with two lines of a love poem. Do this every time you see her. But don’t say anything else. She may think you can’t speak but that is okay.

Buy small inexpensive gifts, have them wrapped as beautifully as possible, or do it yourself. The next time you see her, just walk up to her and say, “This is for you.” If it’s beautiful she will be curious. Here are some suggested items to spend time on the net looking for, or in your local, but you want to give some thought to every gift you give her: doggie soaps, desk top games, figurines of far away places, like the Eiffel tower, pillows with words of encouragement, candles. The key to success is to make the gifts unique.

If after you start you decide you don’t want to go any further, you can quit. If you last to the point she is glad to see you and is open and friendly to you, now the tables will turn. Before you know it she will welcome you into her life. It is at this point you have the ball in your court. You can ask her out on a date, or you can cool the chase to the “it was fun” level but I’m not ready to commit.

The excitement is in letting it cool and remain at a friendly level. Pursuing but never conquering, enjoying the pursuit, staying in control, having choices, making no promises, never acting.

The giving of a gift speaks loud. It says a woman is special, that you thought enough of her, that she is worth it. Your gifts say to her that you see how valuable she is and you are demonstrating that value with these small tokens of expressions. The warning here, to know when to cool to occasional gifts, just in case the relationship takes flight. 

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