The Pregnant Game Women Play 
and the Man Trap

She set the trap and you took the bait, and now she’s pregnant. Didn’t you think there were consequences? Okay. You didn’t think. The opportunity opened up and you dived in. Notice she didn’t even try to play hard to get, did she? A few dinners, a little wine, a few visits and you could have whatever you wanted. And you thought you were getting over. Warning! Warning! It’s too soon. You wouldn’t have listened anyway.

Did you ask about kids? That is the first sign she’s not new to the game. Do they have the same daddy? Different dads mean she’s mastered getting what she wants. Men who don’t protect where they deposit their seed in sexual relationships are destined to hear these words sooner or later: “I’m pregnant.”

So why are you shocked? You’ve been there, haven’t you? Women are still looking for that knight in shining armor and you thought that was all you had, just a few sexual encounters and you were free to move on to the next conquest.

The question you should be asking yourself: Is it mine? How do I know she’s not involved with someone else? Women can be very convincing even when they really aren't pregnant. If she has children, and those daddy’s are coming around, could it be. . . Horrible thought while you’re in the hot seat. You’ve heard the truth, or possible truths, so what are you going to do?

All types of thoughts run through your head: should we talk about abortion? You feel bad because that would be killing your own flesh and blood, if it is yours. You talk about it and the two of you agree, or at least, she lets you know if you don’t want the child she’s carrying, it’s probably better to abort it. What a mess? She appears broken hearted but the bottom line is she wants your money to pay for the abortion.

Was this her goal all along? You’re thinking it but you dare not say. It’s your choice. Maybe you have learned your lesson, but like most men you allow yourself to be led by your head and not logic or morality. That is just the nature of who you have become.

Oh, well, that’s enough teaching for today. Come back another day.