The best type of relationship is to not have one. Why do you want to be
involved with another human being? Your life may seem like there is a
missing piece—You’re right! It’s called a
rib. That
is the missing rib that a woman was fashioned out of.
If you are desiring
to get into the dating game, there
are some questions you should honestly ask yourself: what do I bring to
the table; do I have self-control; am I a giver or taker; do I need a
body in my life to fulfill a carnal need; will that need be enough, or
will I seek to scratch that itch somewhere else, with someone else.
As this couple
found out, something simple as a pet can
have disastrous results, as you read their story at Love
Me
Love My Dog.
Have you fooled yourself into thinking that dating based on a carnal
need has no consequences? More questions for you: how does it make you
feel? When it is over, that carnal need has been met, be honest, how
did it make you feel?
First,
it’s about you. Who are you? Whatever you
have been doing is not working. You are duplicating the same patterns
over and over again expecting a different result.
Having a partner as
a single or married cannot complete
you. Satisfaction comes from you accepting and caring about you. A
relationship can’t bring you what you are looking for. A
marriage
cannot bring you what you are looking for if you don’t know
what
you want or who you are.
Here is the secret! Where are you spiritually? Do you know what it is?
Did you know that you are more than a body, with a mind? Do you know
that there is a part of you that is spirit? That means that there is a
part of you that you are out of touch with. Until you are willing to
explore and understandthat part of you, peace will escape you, and your
desire to be in relationship with another human being will suffer.
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