When
Is The
Right
Time
To Be With Someone?
The most important decision that affects the happiness
of a person is finding the right partner for life and that too at the
right time. The level of perception of a person obviously influences
his/her choice of partner. It is vital to take the proper step at the
proper time and not hesitate while making such an important decision.
One must keep in mind the fact that time is short.
The subsequent
points listed help to find out for
certain whether one is ready for a relationship or not.
1. You
must have monetary security.
2. You
must be perceptive enough to understand the
significant crossroads that life
may present and be wise,
experienced and confident enough to tackle them.
3. Your
emotion and reason must be in agreement when
you decide it is time for you to share your private space with someone.
Research has shown that maximum number of divorces occur due to
indifference of one or both the partners towards one another. Being
interested in your partner is vital for a perfect balance in the
relationship.
4. The
fact that you are ready to take on the
complete responsibility of another person
and that you are ready to
rely on this same person for support is a pointer to the fact that you
are ready for a relationship.
5. Your
consciousness about the desire for a family
and family planning policy
regarding this basic urge shows that you
are ready for a relationship.
6. The
appropriate age for men is between 25-35
years. For women, the most apt
age is in the range of 20-28 years.
7. There
is also a physical need for being with
someone. But if you have not
felt the desire to be with anyone at
all then there must be some emotional issue.
8. One
of the most important facet of the decision
in choosing a partner is the abundance of options one has in the matter.
You have to be aware of all the people you find interesting. This
awareness of your interests naturally makes it easy to avoid potential
disaster. Friends, family, neighbors and the amazing sights and sounds
of the great wide world full of possibilities await one if only one
makes the effort to appreciate. But one only notices all the variety
and beauty when one is in love.
Only a soul mate
who can share your experience makes
everything worthwhile. It is only the perfect partner who can get rid
of the despondency of loneliness and lead you to a life of joy and
happiness.
(An excerpt from
the e-book: Getting Ready For The Right
Relationship)
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