You never know how you are
going to react to a wife cheating until you are faced with it. For
example: Jonathan and his wife are both nurses. His wife Cassie not
only works a day job but takes night jobs too. He thought it would
change once they had children but most times he is left tending to the
children. Jonathan has accepted her decision, and has opted to work
days instead of nights so that he can be home with the children.
One evening Cassie
left her cell phone at home. Jonathan
was not aware of it until the text message alarm went off. To his
surprise the text message was a bit personal. He chose to wait until
she got home to ask what it was all about, why this guy was being so
personal. Is this relationship infidelity? Cassie brushed it off as no
big deal and told Jonathan she would speak to the person.
Had Jonathan not
picked up the phone, what would have
happened? Was he wrong for picking up the phone? It appears this
relationship maybe weak. Could there be an affair in the making? Is
work the cover-up for a wife cheating? Should Jonathan investigate?
Don’t let your imagination run wild because it will. Those
little
imps have been sitting and waiting for an opportunity to invade your
mind, cause you to be jealous, angry, or tormented by suspicion.
Broken trust starts
with suspicion. Everyone is entitled
to some mistakes, even in a marriage, or should you call it quits on a
suspicion? If so, you have to ask yourself, did you really have
anything, or is your love conditional.
Before you decide
to stalk her, read through all of her
text messages, get into an argument, give her the benefit of the doubt.
In case you didn’t know it there are no perfect people since
Adam
and Eve, the folks that led to creation of the first man and woman. If
a person does something to you, or against you, if they ask you to
forgive them, it’s only right that you do. The shoe could be
on
the other foot.
Jonathan should set aside some time for he and Cassie to talk face to
face. Eyes don’t lie. Neither does body language.
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